A few days ago I was writing in my journal all about ending relationships that have been outgrown. As I stared at the ink on the page, I realized that so many people hold on to shitty relationships for fear of not finding other friends, partners, or possibly for fear of having to be alone with themselves.
How sad! I thought.
How unfortunate that people; you, them, whomever, are missing out on expanding your mind, your lifestyle, your income, and most likely your happiness level.
Yes! Your emotional and mental health improves drastically when you cut off toxic relationships.
When you stop being a willing participant. When you assert yourself and say no to people who belittle you, don’t support you, don’t help you when you need it, and are otherwise known as energy vampires.
There’s a huge difference between people who do all that they can no matter how small it seems, or how limited their resources (time / money) are versus the people who take and take and take but never give back.
Get inspired to stand up for yourself.
Wake up! There is power in ending shitty relationships. In saying no. In saying no more.
Friends, partners, biz colleagues, clients, anybody who meets the criteria of your ‘gotta go list’.
I encourage you to make a list of all the things you will no longer tolerate in 2018.
Stick to it.
Value yourself; time, energy, and money.
Spend it wisely.
Don’t sell yourself out and for the love of all things holy, do not apologize for wanting healthy people and relationships in your life.
Ready to stand up, face your fears, and create a life you actually want to wake up to?
As I’ve done with any other new year celebration, I reflected on the accomplishments, lessons, and desires fulfilled rounding into yet another adventurous chapter of life.
As I welcome 2018 with huge goals, desires, and complete trust that the Universe has my d*mn back I want to share the 17 things that 2017 taught me.
- I am a spiritual badass, always have been, always will be and I fully and completely accept that.
- Joining a gym and high-performance program is life-changing on more levels than physical health.
- Listen to my intuition. It never ever lies.
- I no longer need to carry hurts and heartaches from years gone by. I let them go. Relief!
- Having BIG dreams scares all the right people outta my life.
- Married life gets better and better every year.
- A lot of women groups are still toxic places – say no more than saying yes.
- Abundance is my birthright.
- Soulmate clients are drawn to me and I to them.
- Forgiveness is key and opens the door to much healing.
- More isn’t necessarily better. It depends on what the more is….
- Loving yourself releases the urge to ‘fit in’ with all the wrong people.
- Sacrifices are a part of parenting.
- True love is unconditional.
- Grief is not healed by time.
- Vulnerability is the only way to stand in truth.
- I deserve this GREAT PRIMETIME life. 100% and it’s getting BETTER and BETTER and BETTER.
To all of you who have committed to dreaming bigger, living larger, and attracting more hell yes kind of people, things, and money into your life, I cheers to you! May 2018 be your best year, yet.
So much love,
There have been some BIG lessons going on for me to learn; third time over, apparently. Everything you need to learn will repeat itself until you do! FACT! And they say…three’s a charm 😉
Not everyone you start with will go with you.
Let ‘em go. ✨
You can’t do EPIC sh*t with average people.
The friends who don’t support you but expect your time? Bye 👋🏾
The partners who put you and your dreams down. Ciao ✋🏾
The energy vampires who wanna take and take and take. See ya 👋🏾
There’s so much GREATNESS on the other side.
You’re ready, Gorgeous 💕
Take the leap in faith on YOU.
Watch the amazing people + opportunities pour into your life.
Because it’s not supposed to be hard, Gorgeous! 😍
Whoever taught you that pinching pennies living pay cheque to pay cheque was the way “it is” was completely confused.
How about “settling” in a relationship you’ve obviously outgrown, or the self-sabotaging emotional eating you’re hiding…..
Good intentions aside, let’s get real. ☝🏾
If you could sort through your inner sh*t quickly and efficiently – would you?
Do you struggle with money? Did you know that 80% of women who constantly struggle with money have unresolved issues with their fathers? Is that you?
What about relationship boundaries? 🤔
Are you so ready to move forward and shift your confidence you can literally feel it!?
Want to bust through your INNER blocks once and for all and get back in the driver’s seat of your own d*mn life?
You can be WHO you want / have everything you desire AND laugh | live | love MORE THAN EVER.
✨Step into the Next Level You✨
Msg me today and start reclaiming your life.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my years as a successful business woman it’s that you cannot please everyone, it’s boring to try to, and thank God you don’t.
In my experience, women tend to want to fit the mold when honey, you weren’t born to.
You were born to stand out, you were born for greatness, heck, you were born to be yo’ BADASS self!!!
There’s so many of you living on the edge. 🙃
You’re soooo close to the success you desire but you’re stuck in fear.
Stuck in doubt.
You’ve come to far to quit now, you have so much ahead of you waiting to commit to being WHO you are.
Sometimes that’s the hard part. It’s not easy to be a leader (albeit, I know no other way of life!) because people usually take on the followers role, it’s a mob mentality at best – the onlookers, you know, the ones with all the complaints and yet take no action…
You’ve got this, gorgeous!
You are a badass. 😍
You are amazing.
You have the skills to pay your bills. 💸💰
Say it with me now……✨
All too often the amazing women I work with talk about their frustrations related to ‘not having what they want yet!’ and so as I live, I teach.
The first question I ask these women (you may relate to this) is why haven’t you gotten the results you’re after, yet? What’s the issue?
Their reply…”I just don’t know?”
Listen up, there is an obvious disconnect (I know because I’ve been there) when what you think you so desperately want isn’t happening or isn’t manifesting itself. The issue is YOU. The issue is what you’re doing.
Here’s the good news, gorgeous! You can make the necessary changes and stop the madness, end your frustrations, and open your mind to the endless possibilities. You can learn how to release the blocks, the old stories that you keep telling yourself and you can start to receive abundance in ways you’ve never dreamed of.
Ready to go from here to there – wherever ‘there’ is?
Enjoy this FB training I did for people just like YOU who are ready to live larger while manifesting awesome sh*t in their lives with ease…..ahhh! Now that sounds great, doesn’t it?!
P.S. Remember it’s #PRIMETIMEtoShine